Must I play at the party?

• No. There is no rule that says you must play, but it is unacceptable that either member of a couple comes along simply to get their partner through the door. The parties are for couples who like to play, if either of you have no intention of joining in we would ask that you don't attend and allow someone who would like to have fun come along in your place.

• Though we understand that sometimes people "lose the mood", or do not find anyone attractive to them at a party, couples who attend several parties, and where one person never joins in will stop receiving invitations to future parties.